Christmas guests came!!
What do I say to them? What do I do?
Why pre-evangelism? I believe evangelism needs to be understood as deep, spiritual conversations. Such conversations require a relationship exist. This website is about building such relationships.
First things first - we do not want visitors! We want guests!
Second, we don’t greet people. We host guests.
Imagine you have invited the neighborhood for a barbecue — most you don’t know. When they arrive you would host guests — not simply greet visitors.
That change in thinking is at the core of all I say.
Expect guests! Plan for guests! When new people arrive on Christmas Eve it is too late.
This is a 16 minute video that provides phrases to say, things to do, and what to avoid.
But how do I get their contact information so we can build a relationship?
KEY to Episcopal pre-evangelism: Always assertive. Never aggressive. Ask - do not insist. Ask - do not make them uncomfortable. Many first time guests would like to go home and think about it.
Tell they why to leave the information: We would love to keep you informed about our church and various activities. Please leave your contact information ________”
Don’t ask for more than you need —- name, phone number, email. The more you ask for, the more people will refuse. Why do you need their kids names and ages now? If they return and are interested in Christian Education - ask then. First time? Could feel creepy! Why do you need their physical address?
Offer multiple opportunities
Guest book in narthex (lobby) Don’t stare at them until they fill it in!
A place in bulletin. I like a QR code linked to connect form on website. (Don’t ask for too much there either.) At the Peace is a good place. There is time in the service for them to fill it in.
A place in bulletin — a cell phone number they can text their name to. Simplest option!
A separate form in the bulletin. Encourage them at the end of the peace to complete it and put it in the basket.
Give them a gift like a basket with a loaf of bread. Include a form with the QR code and the cell phone number.
